Now We Are Six

Louisa004 Stopping the Cycle, The Adoptee Journey

But six does not look as A.A. Milne described it in my childhood. Truth to be told, I now realise that it never looked like that, I only wish it did. Six is brutal and I’m feeling its brutality again through my children. It is not reasonable or rational. It is brutal.

If I’m jealous, am I also necessarily insecure?

LouisaQuestions, Relationship Fluidity & BeyondLeave a Comment

You Asked… Can somebody who’s completely secure in themselves and their relationship still feel jealousy with respect to their partner? I’ve heard it said that jealousy is rooted in insecurity, but I’ve also heard it said that jealousy is irrational. Can people with complete security in themselves and their relationship still experience jealousy? I Answered… Our rational brain (pre frontal … Read More

the Guardian | Comment threads? They’re a fight to the death. Look, you know I’m right.

LouisaBusiness & Tech, Published Articles, What The Matriarch Sees1 Comment

In the online world, protecting your reputation and your voice is survival; so much so, that if someone has made an fool of themselves in public and been proven wrong, they will – nine times out of ten – leave the forum and choose to eradicate their presence; in other words, they commit a sort of social suicide.