No, It’s Not Your Parents’ Fault

Similarly if you experience insecure attachment as a child, all other things being equal, your mind will default to attach insecurely as an adult.

Like The Poppy

When my self esteem was low, my relationships were abusive. Yet I always assumed that when my self-esteem was higher that my relationships would be healthy.

The Primal Wound by Nancy Verrier

For those adoptees who lose their mother before the separation of the self occurs, they will manifest a primal wound. A deep and lasting impact.