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If you are seeking answers, about trauma, attachment, adoption, monogamy, abuse, relationships and patriarchal structures, as I have been for my entire life, you might find them here. If you don't, then being a subscriber means you can suggest avenues that you personally would like me to investigate (I'm trained in investigative journalism, so that's quite cool).

This subscription serves as my "patreon".  All the money generated from my site helps me stay independent, and funds activism, survivor support and minority-centred journalism.

I also do a lot of unpaid activism and support for abuse survivors (some private and some very public). At the same time, I'm not asking you to give me money for nothing.

No, instead I'm saying "here, have all this stuff I've spent years researching and continue to research, and in exchange, help me to live and help others get through their shit."

Which is where this subscription comes in. To make things simple for you and for me, there's just one. And it costs $5 a month. Yes, just for buying me a cup of tea and a biscuit, you get access to all of it.

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My academic research, my resource directories, and insight into my extraordinarily damaged (and also recovered) life. Secrets, lies, lessons & redemption. Ebooks and exclusive material.

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