Ask: Building A Consent Culture by Kitty Stryker

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

This book highlights a smorgasbord of situations which make you question your current ideas about consent. Consent is not true consent where there is a power imbalance. You cannot make a free and retractable agreement about something, if that agreement is made in fear of losing your access to income, and resources–financial, emotional or otherwise.

“Love, Retold” by Tikva Wolf

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

‘Love, Retold’ personifies non-violent and exploratory angles on our perceived powerlessness created by an ultimate truth; we cannot control others or their willingness to be in a relationship with us, if we truly seek to love.

A look at “The Polyamorous Home”

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

In a polyamorous household especially those with children, there must be a disproportionate number of families which include individuals who may understandably be less invested in creating a well functioning community than say, the biological parents. In those situations and for other communities comprising differing beliefs (including religion) Jess Mahler’s discussion framework–using concepts of hard boundaries and soft boundaries from the kink world–comes in handy.

Are you a Burning Woman?

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Burning Women–as an archetype in our psyche, not a prescribed gender–are rising in the form of intersectional feminists, queer activists and angry people of colour. We are the rule breakers and we demand that our voices be heard. And as we get stronger, so the forces which suppressed us wage an ever more fierce war. But they cannot stop us.

Purple Prose ushers in a new era of Bisexual Visibility

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

Who can forget Little Britain‘s introduction to homosexuality? It was clever comedy on so many levels; dealing with stereotypical perception that Bacardi and coke was clearly the drink of choice for ‘all gays’–god forbid they should drink a masculine pint of stout–that they should only dress in latex and tank tops, that Matt Lucas’ character felt so isolated and misunderstood …

Ask Me About Polyamory by Kimchi Cuddles

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

Today’s comic books are no longer the quiet solace and expression of an alternative community. The mainstreaming of high fantasy and Marvel’s recent success in bringing their comic universe to the cinema gives mainstream credibility to those seeking to make their minority voices heard through pictorial form.

The Game Changer by Franklin Veaux ~ A Trail Through The Trackless Wilderness

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

In his long awaited book “The Game Changer: A memoir of disruptive love” Franklin Veaux delivers the back-story of how he’s become one of those biggest names. It’s not what the book is meant to show perhaps, nevertheless that is what came through for me simply because he honestly describes the process of how he’s become the man he is today.

Lust Life – A Movie by Stephanie Sellars

In Films, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

“I know a couple who are polyamorous whose entire relationship is based on the principle ‘if I didn’t see it, it’s not my problem’,” retorted a friend as I heatedly debated the ethics around lying by omission with her. Well, as heatedly as you can on a Facebook comment thread. “They both know they sleep with other people and it …

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Twice ~ A Movie by Sarah Arlen

In Films, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

But for those who are monogamous – especially as explored in Twice – the paradigm of a monogamous male with a polyamorous female – the struggle is wholly different. Society emasculates their stance as they struggle with opinions which may define them as cuckolds, whilst shame and guilt compound the difficulties.

Raf & The Robots by Sarah J. Corner ~ Alternative Literature for Children

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

I loved ‘The Tiger Who Came to Tea‘. My dog eared copy had followed me round in 22 different houses, over the course of 33 years. And I looked forward to reading it to my daughter. When she was two, I fondly touched the face of the friendly tiger of my childhood as I told her that he ate ‘all …

8 Things I Wish I’d Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

My best friend fell in love, got pregnant and moved to Spain within the space of a year. She was deliriously happy if a little nervous. When she announced it to me on the phone I said ‘Wow that’s brave of you. But how exciting.’ Then I took a deep breath and said ‘We’re also doing the same thing. Moving …

Open by Jenny Block ~ Vagina Wars

In Books, Reviews by Louisa Leontiades

We’re fighting the same fight Jenny and I. The battle to embrace our choices and our sexuality for all that they are and all that they can be. For women to have no shame about their pussies… and bodies.