So white folk, we have a task in front of us which might seem huge, but really it isn't. It is to face our own prejudice when the most obvious and comfortable way to survive is to stay in our bubble. It is to step up and be accountable for our ignorance, even if ignorance is part of our humanity. I will hold your hand as we overcome our fragility and cultivate empathy and battle our minds which tell us that it's not our problem.
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To learn on one hand that I have perpetuated systemic oppressive behaviours, and on the other having to face those who have been oppressed and who are angry at me for doing so makes me want to shield myself from the onslaught which risks triggering the terror I felt as a child.
But if I truly want to be an ally, I cannot ignore it.
At first, I felt guilty about not feeling angry. What had happened? Wasn't anger a healthy expression at the outrage in the world? I should be feeling it!
"Feminists," I told myself sternly, "should be angry. There's a lot to be angry about."