The Clash of Relationship Anarchy with Romantic Hierarchy

Louisa Leontiades Diaries, Epic Relationships, Relationship Anarchy, Unfenced Relationships

I have no one more important than my chosen family. Right now I exist for them and as a reflection of them. I fear that the death of my family, would be the death of me, even if logically I know it to be untrue. In the past I have cleaved towards friends whom I considered as important as my family, only to have them demote me–when push came to shove–in favour of blood ties, even blood ties they despised.

Becoming Chosen Family

Louisa Leontiades Diaries, Epic Relationships, Polyamory, Unfenced Relationships

She had no piece of paper, no recognised validity save what she and my partner felt for one another. She was a guest in my home–the home of a woman she hardly knew–but it was also her boyfriend’s home and she knew him a lot better. My lack of trust was understandable, acceptable even, but that didn’t make it easier for her to handle.

How to Manage Threesomes & More-somes

Louisa Leontiades Epic Relationships, How Tos..., Polyamory, Unfenced Relationships

Successful threesomes might have many components, but I would boldly state that the best way to ensure satisfaction is through good communication. Yet sitting down to discuss boundaries and consent with long term partner(s) with whom you hopefully have an enviable level of honest communication, is the easier part. It is not so easy to communicate with that spontaneous person you meet at the club, who agrees to participate in fun and games with you and your partner(s) for a one-off encounter.