Riding The Tide of Life

Louisa Leontiades Diaries, Epic Relationships, Polyamory, Unfenced Relationships

Because the price I’ve paid for being in this relationship has been the loss of my identity. Any identity I assume, is all too easily discarded. My core is nameless, faceless. Unbound by morals, and untethered to values. And after two years of untying knots to ‘who I am’, what’s left is an unmanned boat free but without direction, sailing on the tide of life.

The Power of Polyamory Through Wonder Woman

Louisa Leontiades Diaries, Epic Relationships, Polyamory, Unfenced Relationships

How could there be any benefit in having another loving adult added to the parenting mix? Or in the simple logistics that three parental figures make less work? I’m not about to refute the potential impact of my children’s loss and heartache, if my boyfriend-who-is-not-the-father (WINTF) would ever leave, but people do break up, move away and die all the time and you don’t have to be in a relationship for that to happen.

Hot or Not? A Case Study of Sexual Objectification in Online Dating

Louisa Leontiades Diaries, Epic Relationships, Polyamory, Unfenced Relationships

There are acts and there are consequences. When you’re a woman with a constant barrage of messages, most of which focus on your appearance, you can become dismissive and even sick of having to reply to them. It creates a greater propensity to dismiss those who have reached out. To treat them like objects. Sarah made her selection on whether she found the image attractive. She objectified the men who had objectified her.