Consent is not true consent where there is a power imbalance. You cannot make a free and retractable agreement about something, if that agreement is made in fear of losing your access to income, and resources–financial, emotional or otherwise.
Posts published in “Book Reviews”
'Love, Retold' personifies non-violent and exploratory angles on our perceived powerlessness created by an ultimate truth; we cannot control others or their willingness to be in a relationship with us, if we truly seek to love.
Countless Facebook group responses advise leaving the home and/or partners if boundaries are crossed. But what if you feel that leaving simply isn't an option? What if boundaries clash because of a conflict of two valid and sometimes non-negotiable belief systems?
Burning Women–as an archetype in our psyche, not a prescribed gender–are rising in the form of intersectional feminists, queer activists and angry people of colour. We are the rule breakers and we demand that our voices be heard. And as we get stronger, so the forces which suppressed us wage an ever more fierce war. But they cannot stop us.
The ideas that Purple Prose lay out are not new; but they are published. Publication does a lot to validate ideas in our world since our collective unconscious recognises validity most often through third party verification.
Today's comic books are no longer the quiet solace and expression of an alternative community. The mainstreaming of high fantasy and Marvel's recent success in bringing their comic universe to the cinema gives mainstream credibility to those seeking to make their minority voices heard through pictorial form.
Designer Relationships is a gentle, compassionate read which presents the subject in a most decorous and acceptable light, yet this also means it is not dramatic or compelling enough to encourage a dubious reader to finish it. This is not a book which will persuade those without an already open and curious mind.
Read Jackie Collins' work. Note the strength of those who use their sexuality to move up the food chain or maintain their position, the objectification and abuse - of both sexes - that litters every chapter. But don't dismiss it as trash.
In his long awaited book "The Game Changer: A memoir of disruptive love" Franklin Veaux delivers the back-story of how he's become one of those biggest names. It's not what the book is meant to show perhaps, nevertheless that is what came through for me simply because he honestly describes the process of how he's become the man he is today.
I loved ‘The Tiger Who Came to Tea‘. My dog eared copy had followed me round in 22 different houses, over the course of 33…
The development of our language and society has fed into this narrative. Bastard children and sluttish women are degraded and ostracized from the herd; they are disgusting. Men are the winners in all of this... or are they?